In Victorian times, two women who lived together instead of marrying were said to be in a "Boston Marriage," where their devotion to each other (in a time when women were thought to have no sex drive and homosexuals were definitely evil) was socially acceptable. The relationship was was marriage-like, but the women were independent, single, and self-supporting, and most of these "Boston Marriages" were not lesbian. So I guess the question would be, "Eva and Rachel, will you Boston Marry me?"